We all do it...Put off the big assignment...Put the exercise
program on the back burner...Write the thank you notes later this week...We all
avoid tasks that we find unpleasant, overwhelming or because we are fearful of
failing.
Procrastination's etymological root is from the Latin words
"Pro" - in favor of and
"Crastinus" - of
tomorrow...So, putting off till tomorrow what should be done today!
Some forms of procrastination have few consequences...Does
it really matter if the dirty dishes sit in the sink overnight?...but others
can affect our opportunities for success...Failing to complete an important
project on time; or our health...Having a doctor take a look at that suspicious
lump.
So what can we do to avoid procrastination? To be proactive
instead of reactive? To systematically get things off I plate so we can lower
our anxiety levels and get to do more of the things we enjoy!
First - focus on starting not finishing a task. A huge
project, whether an end of the year report for work or cleaning out the garage
can be broken down into a series of smaller projects to make it less
overwhelming. Sometimes our avoidance of beginning a project has more to do
with our fears surrounding finishing it...Suppose I can't do it? or What if I
do a lousy job? Looking at a project as a series of beginnings rather than a
uphill battle to the end can make it seem far less overwhelming.
Next , limit the time you will work on each smaller project
so you see a light at the end of the tunnel.
Let's take the garage cleaning project. Give yourself a time limit of 30
minutes to clean up the garden tools. At the end of 30 minutes, stop and reward
yourself! It's likely that you will have become energized by your
accomplishment and ready to tackle another 30 minute segment!
Along with breaking a huge project into smaller ones, look
at setting reasonable goals that you can attain in a short period...Who
wouldn't procrastinate when faced with the goal of, "Lose 20 pounds",
so instead make your goal to lose 2 pounds this week..."Learn to speak
Spanish" or "Practice one 15 minute lesson of Spanish once a
day" Which task would you most likely start and which would you avoid?
In our constantly updating world, keeping distractions at a
minimum can be nearly impossible. So, think ahead when you begin a task. Using
your computer to organize your finances? Turn off your internet connection so
you won't be tempted to surf the web. Reviewing the data for your big project
at work? Put the phone on Do Not Disturb
and close the door or find a place away from your desk where co-workers are not likely to come in
for a chat.
When we come to realize that most of our procrastination is
a response to our fears about our inadequacies, meeting those doubts head-on
can help us get past the barriers we are setting up for ourselves. If you
brainstorm the worse scenario that can happen if you fail to meet your goal,
you'll realize that your worries are
probably exaggerated. By addressing your anxieties, you can get past worrying
about your uncertainties and get to work accomplishing your task.
Procrastination robs us of time, opportunity and self esteem . Make
one small change today, and another tomorrow and you'll be at the starting line
of a more productive, creative and dynamic lifestyle!
Be
Well!
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